Uncertain Decision

Before, being single is really a big issue. It could affect one's social life, be it with family or friends. In some instances when you're around with couples, it seems awkward for the reason that you could not join in discussion that has something to do with their married life. When you're with friends, just the same feeling, you feel cast out when their planning of having a date with their steady boy or girlfriend. When you're with your relatives' siblings, and enjoying the fun being around kids, you could feel that you missed something, the feeling of emptiness, lonesome. The worst is when you realized that you're not getting any younger and not capable to have that "something" anymore. This is just my point of view being a single.

But now, for some people, being single is not actually a choice or an issue to decide on. Being an open-minded, it’s just happened for a reason. Because for me, if being a single is a choice, I would not rather choose to be alone. If someone is on her younger years, maybe it’s just that they enjoy the company of friends, having fun, and just see the advantage of being single in that aspect, but as you get mature, you would only realize then that someone really needs someone to be with. Not for any particular reason but certainly for mutual needs. Most of the time, realization always comes late. So if incase someone will say that being single is a choice, better pay sometime to think about it.