Mending a Wounded Heart

Breaking up with your love one is among the hardest thing to do and expected to create indescribable pain especially to a woman. But certainly, a relationship lead to break-ups always has a justifiable reason. Mending a broken heart is never an easy process to go through, but for every problem there's a solution as well as for every pain there's a prescription.

Being broken hearted could not be understood by someone who has not been yet in a serious relationship. A wounded heart requires ample time to heal, but not impossible. It's always been said easy than done. It's fine to grieve and cry for something you feel makes you sad. It's always normal to feel betrayed or wasted an investment for nothing. But to keep on thinking or asking what have you done wrong will just prolong your agony. Fight the thoughts that will connect to the past by keeping yourself busy on something else. Try to divert your focus into something you think worth or deserves your attention. Have time with friends and family instead of punishing yourself alone.

Someone may say that "Yes, it's really easy said than done". But acceptance is the best, though not that simple means to evaluate the situation. Having your thoughts cleared out of those mean feelings, then realization will follow that everything happens for a reason. Just take those disappointing events a learning experience to develop a new you. Then there you can find strength to release the pain and understand that it would not be impossible to welcome happiness in God's given time.