Traditional Beliefs

I once encountered a couple who shared their story with me. They were married late for a reason they considered the same rationale why some people opted to stay single rather than getting married. And this the belief on first impression.

Most people still believes it is first impression that would last. They are the people who scared of committing mistakes in choosing their better-halves, they are the non-risk-takers when it comes to marriage which they believed a commitment for life, which is true. They usually rely on how they feel about the person when they first met – or the so-called intuition or gut-feeling.

This is what was happened to the couple and wanted it to be shared that it was a big mistake if this belief would be the basis on deciding for your future. They believed that relationship should always be given a chance to grow, support and should always be taken care of if you want it to be in good shape.

Everybody should have been given an opportunity to prove themselves of who really they are. Probably it is love that really binds this couple to take the risk of trying and giving room for their emotion to be discovered. True enough, they said that if they kept on holding on to this wrong belief, they would not have been given the chance to feel the happiness they have with their kids. If there is something we want to have or to do, no one will get it or do it for us but ourselves, so let us not be suppressed by anything that's not exist and be afraid not to try.